Did you ever feel like you were getting it all wrong? Not just when you told a lie to get yourself out of trouble. Not just when you upset someone because you didn’t really care how they felt. But always? Did you ever feel like even when you tried to get it right you ended up getting it wrong? Like your friends were getting it wrong as well – and your parents too. Like all the crazy people on the news were getting it so badly, so unbelievably wrong. Yeah? Me too. Well guess what . . . you’re right. There is a better way. And this is the story of how I found it.